Have A Fling to Spice Up Your Marriage
Your marriage is on its deathbed. You seem to have no solution to the incessant coldness that keeps creeping in between you and your spouse. The last time you had sex was on Christmas day, last year but one. What should you do? Have that office fling and spice up your marriage!
Marriage is not about love
Marriage is rarely about love. Those who have been married for a long time will attest to this. They know that love disappears as soon as the vows are uttered to be replaced by friendship and commitment. Those who yearn for the fire that was there in the beginning only end up more frustrated with time and the desire to cheat on their spouses always looms above their heads like the proverbial sword of Damocles.
Time to have an office fling
What should you do when love dries on the domestic front? Have an office fling of course. See that friendly secretary that smiles at you every time you cross the door? See that man who always finds a reason to brush your arm as if by accident? That is where you should try your lack. Hit it off and have that one night stand, and it doesn’t have to be at night. Offices have blinders and even if they didn’t there is always a reason to work late or go for an urgent trip out of time. Have that office affair that will make you regret.
That one night stand may spice up your marriage
There is every reason to believe that having that fling, that one night stand will spice up your dull marriage. Why on earth would it spice up your marriage? Because of one important reason. The moment you partake of the forbidden fruit, things will never be the same again, once you cheat on him or her, things might never go back to how they were before the fling.
Guilt has the power to move you closer to your spouse
It is not about the possibility of irreparable damage an affair presents, it is not about what you stand to lose in the process, and it is about the guilt you feel afterwards. That guilt alone has the power to move you closer to your spouse; it is enough to make you realize how better by far they are when compared to the spouse you so much neglected.
Not everyone should try a fling
Can anyone use this shock therapy into spicing up their marriage? No, not everyone can have a fling to spice up his or her cold marriage. Flings are not for pathological liars who have no reason to cheat but end up seeking prostitutes day and night, flings are not for sex addicts who have no reason to cheat, they are for those who respect the institution of marriage itself, they are for those who still have love for their spouses but can no longer feel it, they are for those who want some adventure in their otherwise dull marriages. Should you have a fling to spice up your marriage? Share your thoughts.
Disclaimer: This writer is a happily married man that does not condone any form of cheating.