Five Sensuous Ways to be a More Loving Wife

October 26, 2008 by gemini3  
Published in Marriage

Your husband will love and appreciate you more if you follow these steps…

Let’s face it, there’s always room for improvement in a marriage.  We are to blame for our own failing marriage if we don’t try to make it better.  So, how do we make it better?  There are many things that you can do to help your marriage become stronger, better, hotter! Keep these ideas in mind and use them every day.  Soon, you’ll see your marriage turn around. Your once sour husband will be all over you!

  1. Kiss your husband for no reason.  Kiss him just because you want to.  Kiss him because you know he’s had a heck of a long day and you want to make it just a little better. Kiss him because he’s a great father.  Kiss him just because he’s a great guy.  Kiss him because this morning he reminded you just how much of a witch you can be when you get upset over nothing.  It doesn’t have to be a major make-out session (unless you both want it to be).  Just a quick kiss that reminds him that you do love him will go a long way.
  2. Say “I love you” more.  Say it for no reason at all…just because you love him.  Call him in the middle of the day to tell him that you’re thinking about him.  Text him with a sexy message that will make him turn red hot with embarrassment when he reads it during a long and boring meeting at work.
  3. Surprise him by sleeping in the nude.  Make sure you are in bed before he is and surprise him when he lifts the covers to crawl in with you. 
  4. Don’t bring up dumb things from the past.  Don’t remind him of the things he didn’t do.  Instead, praise him for the wonderful things he has done like picking up the kids from practice so you could have “girls’ night out”. 
  5. Try to not say “no” when he’s in “the mood”.  Many marriages break up because one partner or the other has put sex way back in the farthest burner.  Lovemaking is very important because it is a strong and special bond that only the two of you share with each other.  This is the time to say “I love you” and then show him just how much you do love him.  If your husband is a little too frisky too often, offer to surprise him on Wednesdays and Saturdays if he gives you more “sleep time” the rest of the week.  If you are the very frisky one, ask your husband if he likes it that way or if he needs a little break.  Some times, one partner will feel that making love too often takes all the fun out of it because it is being done “mechanically” or as a “chore”.  Always talk to your partner and set a common ground that works best for the two of you.  You need to become sexually compatible if you aren’t already.

Have fun being sensuous and always remember to say “I love you”!

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2 Responses to “Five Sensuous Ways to be a More Loving Wife”
  1. thestickman Says:

    Ever popular subject! ;-D

    Nice to read.

    -thestickman

  2. Kim Buck Says:

    So much work it is exhausting. But anything worth having is worth doing right.


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