Couples Should You Reconcile or Move on

October 14, 2012 by jfay1995  
Published in Marriage

Couples Should you Reconcile or Move On? In a marriage or any relationship, should you reconcile and seek restoration? Or should you move on as there is too much water under the bridge?

When a man and a woman get married of course they hope that it is forever and they take their vows seriously.  But the fact is that it doesn’t always end up like that in today’s world.  It also happened years ago, but it was hush hush and divorce and separation really weren’t approved of as much back then.  Times have surely changed where in today’s society the idea of marriage is becoming a dying thing.

Well, not to all.  There are still a majority of people that really do believe in a marriage and forever. It hasn’t disappeared and there are millions of us who want to believe in it.  Yet, now people really give up way too soon and don’t believe that it is worth the effort.

Here are my opinions about people reconciliating though.  I think there could be good things and possibly some bad.  It would just depend on the situation and who the couple is.

Say you both just decided to call it quits, right and you just always wanted to know if you could get back together again.  It really has to be up to both parties.  Both the man and the woman have to want it.  That’s a given.  A reconciliation should never be forced. 

Before you do go for restoration though, you really have to think about all the things that happened between you and your partner and make a mental list of all the good things and all the bad.  Think about them and decide which list is longer.  Also maybe make a checklist of the bad things that you would be okay with living with, because if you choose to resume your relationship where you left off, chances are those things can still be there.

Also make sure that the other half has changed for the better and not for the worse.  Don’t just let someone back in if you don’t think you see a sign that he is a new man or she is the woman who seems like she has a new head on her shoulders.  She might not, and there could be some stitching loose up there and the man might have a hold somewhere that all those flaws you know so well have been stuffed inside where you don’t see them and he will pull them out again when you are not looking and you will fall into the trap again.

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2 Responses to “Couples Should You Reconcile or Move on”
  1. Tiki33 Says:

    If it was a strained relationship, it maybe best to move on.

  2. septana Says:

    I hope your article gives a lot of benefits for us all

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