Cheating=not Cool!

August 8, 2012 by ReRe  
Published in Marriage

When I heard that Kristen Steward cheated on Rob Patterson with a married man, I kind of lost some faith in her.

I mean seriously, that is not cool. First thing that came to my mind is why she would jeopardize her career, doesn’t she realize that something like this can seriously affect her? I honestly didn’t think that she would be that type of person that would do something like that, but as they all say, “don’t judge a book by it’s cover” It literally broke my heart to find out what she did was true. I always say that there is no accuse for cheating, if you are not happy in a relationship just be an adult about it and leave, it’s not hard to do, because a lot of the time it is much better to have time to yourself to figure out what you really want in a relationship and life in general. The man that she cheated on him with is no better, the fact that he is married and has children should of made him think twice about it. Cheating is very hurtful and disrespectful to the other person, if you don’t want it done to you, then why do it to them? I have always said that I rather have a person to just walk away if that person is not happy, then to cheat. I mean yeah at first, I will be hurt if the person I love just walks away BUT at the same time, I think I can respect a person more for walking away than cheating, I mean it’s true that I will be hurt for awhile, but as an adult I am able to forgive a person who walks away if  they were not happy, but I don’t think that I can ever forgive cheating though simply because as I stated before it is hurtful and disrespectful. I just can’t understand how a married person can cheat either, I mean when you get married, you made a promise to your spouse, and promises are not meant to be broken, when you decide to get married you’ve must of known that it takes hard work to keep the relationship going, right? And you’ve also must of known that people change overtime, right? And would you really risk possibly not having a happy family and be branded as someone who simply walked out on them and not have them not respect you anymore all because you decided to have an affair?

I wish there were days where people actually work hard to make their relationship work, where people take their vows seriously, and where people would actually walk away instead of cheating if they are not happy in their relationship. It is truly sad.

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