The No.1 Secret of Attractive People
August 18, 2009 by CutestPrincess
Published in Beauty
Ways to keep your confidence up and be very attractive.
Confidence is what creates the magic in any attractive and influential person. It transforms people, turning Average Joe into Hot Harry. Everyone has talents and capabilities, but it’s confidence that pushes you to make use of them.
Whether you’re in a job interview or on a first date, coming off as confident has a two-fold effect: it wins you an automatic level of respect and convinces people to take you seriously, and it boosts your self-esteem, which may push you to do more or achieve more. Confidence helps you to be happy with yourself, and when you’re happy with with yourself, you create the power to do things and live the life you want.
Confident people: Use body language well
Your posture and actions can send messages, which you may or may not intend. It can also pull your self-image up or down. Send the right message by:
- Standing up straight . The basic rule. Standing straight and square can help in lifting your overall confidence.
- Looking people in the eye. This conveys sincerity, and when people feel you are sincere, they listen. Do not look away. It will show that you’re nervous. It might also make people think you’re disinterested, or worse, lying. Nodding every once in a while when talking to someone assures them that you’re listening.
- Walking like you mean it. Spine straight, shoulders back, chin up. One foot in front of the other.
- Assuming the “power stance.” This technique is very helpful when in front of an audience. Stand with feet a little less than shoulder-length apart, and place one foot very slightly behind the other. Shift your weight so that it falls on this foot. This allows your body to “open up” and “reach” more of your audience. It’s also a less uptight position, and helps your body relax and feel more comfortable.
- Don’t fidget . Fidgeting is a classic symptom of insecurity. When speaking, avoid too many hand gestures, which can be distracting. Having a prop helps, but it shouldn’t be an excuse to hide behind it. If you’re standing behind a table or a podium, you can rest your hand on it.
- Trying not to cross your arms . That says “Go away.” It can also mean, “I am boring and have no social skills.”
- “Shrinking” a little when dealing with authority . It is possible to come off as over-confident, which you never want to do. Tempering your stance is a way of showing respect. Confidence can be interpreted as arrogance when you try too hard, like talk too loud or put your head up to high.
- Smiling . Period.
Talk the talk
Speaking well helps get your point across faster and more smoothly. People take you more seriously. They form impressions of respect and really pay attention. You can also get away with so much more stuff when you speak well.
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August 18th, 2009 at 8:10 am
Nice tips!
I hope I could do that and be confident at all time XD
August 18th, 2009 at 8:16 am
I love this article! Yes, confidence is the key to everything, right from beauty, to wealth, to power and to just basically everything. Great article.
August 18th, 2009 at 8:38 am
When you said,”Find beauty in flaws,” I knew I had to write those words down for someone who needs them in my family. Thank you for always lifting my spirits. Love this one!
August 18th, 2009 at 8:59 am
Good article!
August 18th, 2009 at 9:11 am
What a brilliant article. I wish I had seen it years ago when I was at work. It would have really helped me then.
Christine
August 18th, 2009 at 10:04 am
The secret is nicely revealed .Thanks for sharing.
August 18th, 2009 at 10:41 am
great work!
August 18th, 2009 at 10:48 am
I agree. Good one. Keep up!
August 18th, 2009 at 11:43 am
I love your article, it reminded me of confidence.. if people are down at least faking confidence can make you go a long way than nothing at all..and then it would become your second nature
August 18th, 2009 at 11:56 am
Excellent tips and well-written.
August 18th, 2009 at 7:42 pm
One of your best articles yet, keep it up my sweet Princess.
August 18th, 2009 at 9:14 pm
Very sound advice.
August 18th, 2009 at 9:52 pm
Great tips!
August 18th, 2009 at 10:12 pm
great tips
August 18th, 2009 at 11:55 pm
Very good write up Princess (as usual)….Great and helpful tips
August 19th, 2009 at 12:49 am
some of the best tricks and tips accumulated in a single blog awesome…..keep the good work up we all need such type of information
August 19th, 2009 at 4:21 am
WITH CONFIDENCE YOU’RE MORE charming and likable, and you undergo enhanced than when you lack confidence.
August 19th, 2009 at 5:53 am
Being confident makes all the difference. Nice article. Thanks
August 21st, 2009 at 2:59 pm
These are exactly the same points I try to teach my kids about. Yes, you’re right with everything here. A totally great write, one I will print out and show my kids. Michael
December 22nd, 2009 at 11:49 pm
Nice article. Thanks
December 23rd, 2009 at 2:40 am
Nice article. Thanks
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