Sex Appeal is Magic
March 27, 2008 by Tarra Buluran
Published in Beauty
What makes a woman attractive?
“Mommy, what is sex appeal?” a little girl asked her mother. “Darling, you will know it when you grow up,” her mother replied. But the girl insisted, “Mommy, what is sex appeal?” “Well, sex appeal is something which makes a man or a woman attractive,” her mother explained. The girl paused for a moment and then answered with eyes wide-open, “I think you have sex appeal!” “And why did you say so?” her mother answered in surprise. The girl said, “Because Daddy said you’re beautiful!”
Do you think of sex appeal the way the little girl does? Or do you think of it the other way around? What really is sex appeal?
There are people who consider being fragrant and clean is attractive. In ancient times, Cleopatra was not beautiful which is contrary to belief. She used to perfume herself with flower petals to conquer the hearts of Julius Caesar and Mark Anthony. To some people, it does not even matter whether they have it or not while others believe that you are attractive if you own a pretty face or a well-built physique. However, there are people who are not physically endowed yet they seem to have magic in their presence. It is because that such appeal is natural in them. But for those who are eager to know some secrets of sex appeal, you have to learn these simple ways.
Emphasize Your Gender
There is nothing more attractive than being what you really are. There are people who are female but not feminine. Your real self is your sex appeal. If you are a woman, dress up and behave like the way women should.
Learn to Build Confidence
Believe in yourself and your capabilities. You don’t have to have plenty of money in the bank to be confident. Confidence builds sex appeal. It also inspires other people. Men find confident women irresistibly attractive.
Be Tactful
Talking doesn’t require you to have a well-modulated voice or a correct grammar. However, it is ethical to think carefully of the right words to say rather than say what readily comes to your mind. Speak of good thoughts and always be calm.
Be Clean and Fragrant
A person who is always clean and fragrant from head to toe receives admiration from people. What is a beautiful and gorgeous woman if she has dirty feet? Cleanliness is attractive while fragrance creates a second look.
Sex appeal does not mean being just beautiful. It does not only come from within but can be learned and acquired. Now, If people think you are attractive, then you have captured the magic!
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March 28th, 2008 at 2:38 am
Two thumbs up!!!
March 28th, 2008 at 3:00 am
that’s true!!!
March 31st, 2008 at 11:52 am
What in the world is the way a person “should” act according to their gender?
April 1st, 2008 at 2:52 am
brilliant work! i have never consciously thought that sex appeal is something magical but merely natural. now, i realized that potions have been and are meant really to falsely improve one’s sex appeal and not simply make one lovely. so, what are you guys waiting for? go for it!
April 1st, 2008 at 8:34 am
Really, this is such a load of re-hashed nonsense from every self-help manual on the planet!
Sex-appeal is a manufactured construct (invented by out of date women and a patriarchal society) It was popular in the fifties.
Get with it girl! Men want sex first, the appeal comes later.
If you are compliant that’s fine. If not, well, any man under the age of forty has his pick. Women let themselves down. Sex appeal has nothing to do with anything. By the time a man reaches sixty he is still on the ‘look out’ by the time he is seventy he’s desperate! I really wish I’d been born a lesbian. Men give me a headache. We live in a male-dominated society, as long as our biology dictates that we pro-create there will never be equality. Sex appeal? Who cares?
April 2nd, 2008 at 11:35 pm
tsk! tsk! tsk! obviously, poor christina doesn’t have it…
April 12th, 2008 at 8:40 pm
…Hi, interesting article.
I think that sex appeal also
includes making that member,
of the opposite sex, feel that
they are the only one in your
universe at that moment. That
they are very, very special
to you. Work it!
May 3rd, 2008 at 7:52 am
I think the so-called “sex appeal” is something which is relative. people have varied tastes so to speak. what one may find sexy or attractive may not be that appealing to another. but still, no single principle can really explain/define what sex appeal is.
June 19th, 2008 at 10:28 am
nice article! I applied it in my life and guess what? my long-time crush Peter is now my boyfriend, honestly, yeah!
July 5th, 2008 at 10:13 pm
… nice article, a nice way of giving definition to sex appeal…
September 17th, 2008 at 4:19 am
sew sex appeal is my behavior thats me!!!!
THATS TRUE but I’m boyish hah !!
hah !!attractive yeah my neil steven tarculas