Controlling Behavior or is It Compromising?

Is it controlling when your partner asks what you have planned for the day?

It isnt controlling when someone asks to be respected. Women seem to always look at it that way. It is respect. It is compromise. We have to learn to be fair. It is not cool to expect someone to just accept that you wont respect their feelings.

In our home no one needs to ask. We talk about what we did that day and what our plans are the next day. Communication.

If something happens to me I want him to know where I am. I am flattered he cares as I do him. It isn’t controlling when our plans change and we care enough to inform one another. It is called respect. It is called communication. It is called a relationship.

Women always want a good man, but for many, when they have one they step all over them. Think of it this way. What if he started doing things differently all of a sudden without talking to you? It is suppose to be a relationship. 2 people with feelings. 2 people that need to compromise.

All most respectable men want is to be appreciated and respected. Do you think telling him you changed plans, told him where you are or what you are doing, is controlling? Not me..I think it shows he cares where I am. It is all how we think.

When a man feels left out or disrespected and he is doing his best for a woman, yes he gets hurt. He reacts just as we do. If it was because you didnt tell him you changed your routine, why shouldn’t he feel hurt?

 Sometimes we have to realize it isnt control. It is because they care. There is a huge difference. If a man is a good man and he feels disrespected, he will react. A smart good man will walk if a woman wont respect him.

 It takes experience and time to learn the difference between caring and controlling.

When  you have a good man that puts you first, respects you, honest, hardworking and has integrity and all he wants is the same back? Why on earth is that a problem?

 Sometimes it is hard to know a good man when a woman is use to be mistreated. So when a good one comes and demands respect a woman feels he is controlling